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"Words Have Power, Don't Be an A**"

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Sticks and Stones Can Break Your Bones and Words Can Really Hurt You


 I have two major pet peeves; one is smelly things and the other is when people inappropriately use mental illness terms in offensive and in a non-mental health context way. Doing so is referred to as ableism, and negatively targets individuals living with disabilities. Describing someone or something as "crazy," "bipolar," or "insane" is not okay and should never be accepted. Mental illness is a medical condition that affects a persons thinking, feelings, mood, and overall daily life. Just as with cancer, diabetes, or even the common cold/flu mental illness is also an illness. For thousands of years (yes thousands) the stigma associated with mental illness has silenced men, women, and children preventing them from getting the appropriate help they desperately need and deserve. Words influence our thoughts, actions, and ultimately the world around us. Being cognizant of what we say and how we say it, when talking about mental illness has the power to change the way society thinks and feels about mental health. Speak wisely. 
In a time where we have made significant strides in the fight against discrimination, we have a long way to go. So, why does society seem to have this laissez-fair attitude when it comes to mental illness? A big part of it has to do with the fact that many have never been told that it was wrong and/or offensive and the other is that many are not well informed about this illness. However, the fight to end stigma can only be achieved when we make a conscious choice in what we say and how we say it. 


 I recently read about Kylie Jenner and the controversy created by her tweeting, "“I miss my black hair I’m so bipolar :( .” What's wrong with this statement you ask? Well, first of all being undecided about hair color does not make you bipolar and second it seems to highlight how desensitized society has become to mental illness and those who suffer from it. Does this make Ms. Jenner a bad person? No, it does makes her misinformed and ignorant. What she tweeted was definitely inappropriate, but is also reflective of society as a whole. Statements like this degrade those suffering from mental health disorders and only add to the stigma. Continuously using words like this will only make you look like an ass in the process. 

 The next time you are in the thought process to verbally describe your annoying neighbor or horrible day at work, get creative. If that fails, maybe revert to selecting one of those colorful words we know you have stashed away in your vocabulary vault. Okay, just kidding do not do that. The last thing I need is for your mom to comment about how you and I need to put some soap in our mouth! Just as with the silent social rules like; don't talk in an elevator, don't pick your nose in public (ahem, please remember your car has windows...we can see you!), and never asking a lady for her age it is also not okay to use albeist language. If you catch someone else using it, do your part and inform, educate, and fight the stigma! 

 In friedship,
@Ne

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